If you're wondering what age should a child get a smartphone, the honest answer is that there's no magic birthday, and the best research can't prove that phones cause harm. What it does show, from the largest long-running study of US kids, is a steady pattern. Children who owned a smartphone by 12 were doing worse on sleep, mood and weight, and a new paper adds eating disorder symptoms to that list.
So a defensible position for most families is to wait past 12 for an unrestricted smartphone, and to treat a phone, a smartphone and social media as three separate decisions. A 10-year-old who needs to reach you after school can have calls and texts without a single feed on the device.
Kids with a smartphone at 12 reported more eating disorder symptoms by 14
The new study, published in JAMA Network Open on 25 September 2026, followed 8,957 children from the ABCD study, recruited through schools at 21 US sites between 2018 and 2024. Parents reported whether their child had their own phone and when they got it. Of the group, 6,225 kids (69.5%) owned a smartphone at age 12.
The kids themselves answered yes or no to standard interview questions at 12 and again at 14. Researchers looked at four symptoms: binge eating, compensatory behaviours (things done to prevent weight gain), worry about gaining weight, and self-worth tied to weight.
The other raw numbers, smartphone owners first, then non-owners:
- Any symptom at 12: 16.1% vs 11.3%
- Binge eating at 12: 9.2% vs 6.0%
- Compensatory behaviours at 14: 20.5% vs 12.7%
- Self-worth tied to weight at 14: 7.8% vs 3.5%
The researchers then adjusted for a long list of things that could muddy the picture, including sex, race, income, parent education, puberty stage, ADHD and depressive symptoms, parental monitoring, body weight, and whether the child had a tablet, laptop or smartwatch. After that, kids with a phone at 12 were still about 1.5 times as likely to report any symptom at 14. Self-worth tied to weight was about twice as common, binge eating 1.67 times and compensatory behaviours 1.5 times.
Worry about weight gain was the exception. It wasn't linked to phone ownership overall, though at 12 girls with phones reported more of it than boys did.
The same children already showed links to sleep, mood and weight
This isn't a one-off. An earlier analysis of the same ABCD children in Pediatrics found that most got their first smartphone around 11, and those who had one by 12 had higher rates of depression, obesity and insufficient sleep than those who didn't.
The wider research points the same way, with smaller effects. A JAMA Pediatrics umbrella review published on 28 September 2026 pooled 23 meta-analyses covering 2,817,252 children in 64 countries. Screen use was linked to more anxiety and withdrawal (r = 0.10, and 0.09 for social media specifically), which is a small association. Links to emotional problems (r = 0.30) and peer problems (r = 0.28) were larger, but the uncertainty around them was very wide.
The same review found no association with executive function, maths, science or reading scores, and results varied a lot by screen type and age. I covered that nuance in more detail in whether all screen time is bad for kids.
What the eating disorder study can't tell you
The authors are upfront that this design can't show cause and effect. Phones weren't handed out at random, so the arrow could point the other way: a child already struggling might be more likely to be given a phone, or to ask for one.
The phone owners were also different kids from the start. They were more likely to be female, Black or Hispanic, from lower-income families, and further into puberty. The study didn't record what anyone actually did or saw on their phone, symptoms were yes or no so severity is missing, and bullying and existing mental health problems weren't accounted for. One more thing the authors don't raise: the data run from 2018 to 2024, right through the pandemic.
A published critique points to body weight
On 4 October 2026, Stéphane Stahl of University Hospital Regensburg posted a comment on the JAMA Network Open article page. He noted that phone owners weighed more at the start (50.8 kg vs 46.7 kg), which could explain some of the symptoms, and that weight without height is a poor measure of body fat in growing children.
He also flagged that "exercising a lot" may have been counted as a harmful compensatory behaviour when it often isn't, that exposure to idealised images was never measured, and that the study can't test whether delaying a phone prevents eating disorders. Taken together, the evidence is a consistent warning sign. It is still short of proof, and anyone who says otherwise is overselling it.
Feeds, privacy and lost sleep are the suspected links (none were tested)
The study authors and clinicians at Stony Brook Medicine offer similar possible explanations. Treat these as reasonable guesses, since the study didn't measure any of them:
- Unsupervised access to content a parent never sees
- Comparing yourself with others, and appearance-focused trends like "looksmaxxing"
- Reward and impulsivity processes that overlap with binge eating
- Night-time phone use disrupting sleep and appetite regulation
Two of those four run through feeds and social apps, and one runs through the bedroom at night. That's useful, because both are things you can control separately from whether your child carries a phone at all. If sleep is your main worry, I've written about a sensible cut-off time for teen phone use.
The average age kids get a phone is about 11, and plenty wait longer
In the ABCD children, most got a smartphone around 11. By the teen years nearly everyone has one, with 95% of US teens having access to a smartphone according to Pew figures cited in the Nagata paper.
Before 13, though, holding off is common. In a Pew Research Center survey from October 2025, 3 in 4 parents of children under 13 said their child doesn't have their own smartphone.
So when your child says everyone has one, it's worth knowing that a large minority of their classmates probably don't. Policy is moving in the same direction too: Australia's minimum age of 16 for social media accounts took effect in December 2025.
A staged first phone plan, based on AAP guidance
The American Academy of Pediatrics updated its Getting Your First Phone guidance on 22 October 2026. Teens in the research behind it said there's no perfect age. They suggested around 12 to 13, and only when there's a real need for independence, safety or keeping in touch.
- 01Check need and readiness
Ask whether your child needs to reach you on their own, whether they handle responsibility in other areas, and whether you're ready to help them.
- 02Agree the rules first
Fill in the Family Media Plan together and try Common Sense's First Phone Readiness quiz before the phone arrives.
- 03Start with the basics
Turn on shared family controls for app downloads, internet, contacts, content and purchases, and begin with talk, text, video chat, maps and camera.
- 04Hold off on social media
Start with texting only and check in regularly about whether the phone feels fun or stressful.
- 05Protect sleep
Keep the phone out of the bedroom overnight or cut its Wi-Fi before bed.
Changes in eating, mood or sleep are worth a call to the pediatrician
Once a phone arrives, watch for shifts in mood, sleep, eating habits, schoolwork or friendships. Given the findings above, pay particular attention to talk about weight or body image, especially from girls.
If something about your child's eating or weight talk worries you, Stony Brook Medicine advises bringing it to your pediatrician. For broader worries about compulsive use, this checklist of social media addiction signs is a reasonable place to start.
- There's no single right age. Teens consulted by the AAP suggested about 12 to 13, and only with a real need.
- Kids with a smartphone at 12 reported more eating disorder symptoms at 14 (about 24 vs 16 in 100), on top of earlier links to depression, obesity and poor sleep.
- The evidence is observational. It can't prove phones cause these problems, and differences in body weight may explain part of the pattern.
- A phone, a smartphone and social media are three separate decisions, and feeds can wait longest.
- Over 40% of parents of 11 to 12-year-olds say their child has no smartphone, so waiting is common.
Questions people ask
Is 12 too young for a smartphone?
There's no proven cut-off, but in a study of 8,957 US kids, those with a smartphone at 12 reported more eating disorder symptoms at 14, and earlier work linked it to depression, obesity and poor sleep. Many families wait past 12 for full smartphone access, or give a limited phone without social media first.
What is the average age kids get a phone?
In the large ABCD study, most US kids got their first smartphone around 11. Even so, more than 40% of parents of 11 to 12-year-olds told Pew in 2025 that their child doesn't have one.
Are smartphones linked to eating disorders?
A 2026 JAMA Network Open study found that owning a smartphone at 12 was linked to more binge eating, compensatory behaviours and self-worth tied to weight by 14. The study can't show cause, and a published critique notes that phone owners weighed more to begin with.
Should my child have a basic phone or a smartphone first?
The AAP suggests starting small: talk, text, video chat, maps and camera, with app downloads and purchases locked behind family controls. A phone doesn't have to come with social media, so texting only is a sensible first step.
How do I know if my child is ready for a phone?
The AAP frames readiness as a real need to stay in touch, being responsible in other areas of life, and a parent ready to supervise. Common Sense Media's First Phone Readiness quiz and the AAP Family Media Plan can help you decide together.
Sources
- Smartphone Ownership and Eating Disorder Symptoms in Early Adolescence JAMA Network Open · 2026-09-25
- Reader comment on Smartphone Ownership and Eating Disorder Symptoms in Early Adolescence (Stéphane Stahl) JAMA Network Open · 2026-10-04
- Smartphone Ownership, Age of Smartphone Acquisition, and Health Outcomes in Early Adolescence Pediatrics · 2026
- Screen Use and Child and Adolescent Development and Mental Health Outcomes: A Quantitative Umbrella Review JAMA Pediatrics · 2026-09-28
- What New Studies Say About Screen Time, Smartphones and Kids' Health Stony Brook Medicine · 2026-10-28
- How Parents Manage Screen Time for Kids Pew Research Center · 2025-10-08
- Getting Your First Phone American Academy of Pediatrics · 2026-10-22
- Family Media Plan HealthyChildren.org (American Academy of Pediatrics)
- First Phone Readiness Common Sense Media